tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post7558337190382883633..comments2023-10-05T05:52:55.640-07:00Comments on Amused and Abused...mood swings and musings from a life on the ledge.: Mourning the Loss of the Never-WasShaehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05245380226796583088noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post-49998301469595317172011-10-28T21:43:49.524-07:002011-10-28T21:43:49.524-07:00Beautiful, Thank you for sharing with such depth a...Beautiful, Thank you for sharing with such depth and clarity. Being the survivor of child abuse, I learned that it is NEVER anything the child did, it is always about the weakness of the adult. You are a gorgeous, wonderful soul and a kind generous person, maybe the Universe decided you deserved the right mother, if not necessarily the original mother. You deserved to be loved.Adaya Marcelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12362782088146952085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post-19192482790525801802011-10-28T21:36:52.905-07:002011-10-28T21:36:52.905-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Adaya Marcelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12362782088146952085noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post-84146260770532224822011-08-22T11:45:33.584-07:002011-08-22T11:45:33.584-07:00How about take a month and post a birthday post?How about take a month and post a birthday post?Chan:)noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post-84025436611246509452011-02-09T14:14:09.674-08:002011-02-09T14:14:09.674-08:00Shae, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I can...Shae, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't even imagine what this feels like for you. If there is anything I can do to help, please let me know. <br /><br />I wish I had the answers to all of your questions, but I don't. But there is one thing I can say with absolute certainty. That little girl did absolutely NOTHING wrong. Her leaving was in no way your fault, so please don'Maurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12488291657236980361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post-23518219977056484492011-02-06T08:00:38.918-08:002011-02-06T08:00:38.918-08:00Hey honey. I am so sorry. What a horrible way to e...Hey honey. I am so sorry. What a horrible way to experience such a loss. Thank G~d he was so smat as to put you in the life of the right mother when you were little! As an adoptee who did find her bios... the answer to some of your questions is yes. She did care. She did remember your birthday. She - for some reason you will never actually grasp - was not able give you herself and that, my friendfabeliz67https://www.blogger.com/profile/17955251097987486172noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-18331300.post-45714400579838819932011-02-05T13:53:23.650-08:002011-02-05T13:53:23.650-08:00Shea, I, too, am an adoptee; however, unlike you, ...Shea, I, too, am an adoptee; however, unlike you, I was adopted shortly after birth and have never known my "biological."<br /><br />I have the most wonderful parents ever (my dad passed several years ago), but there will always be unanswered questions. <br /><br />I offer my sympathies but rejoice in the fact that you did at least know her...for however a short time. Take care.Mary Marellonoreply@blogger.com